Yeah, I get what you're saying. I've only really had experience with the type I described, so it didn't occur to me that the flipside happens, too, even though I know it does because people can be real stupid about things like that.

One thing that came to mind when I read your post was Mark Reads (http://markreads.net/reviews/)/Watches (http://markwatches.net/reviews/), because he takes into account a lot of social justice issues when he reviews things, and the entire site's heavily moderated to encourage civil discussion. You might enjoy his stuff :)