Hahahahaha when I finally allowed other people to basically NAG ME TO DEATH to get on Facebook, I was friended IMMEDIATELY by my parents, my in-laws, my stepsisters, my cousins, my college friends, some grad school friends, WORK friends and ALSO people from fandom/LJ/DW. There was absolutely zero chance of me ever posting anything even mildly controversial or personally revealing from day one. Now I get nagged to death there about "Why don't you ever update?" but since I never get any notifications from Facebook ever, at least that happens where I can't hear it. I don't necessarily want work or school acquaintances to know about my fandom life or fandom friends to know IRL details! Ack.