Wishful thinking

I'm back at work, I feel like I've been run over by a bus, but the fandom meme continues. Day Fourteen is:

N: Name three things you wish you saw more or in your main fandom (or a fandom of choice).

I think I've established in the past thirteen entries here that I'm happy to kind of go my own way and tend my own fannish garden, cultivating the kinds of spaces and fannish behaviour/activity I want to see, even if it means sticking to fandoms-of-one and prioritising friendships with people whose attitudes and approach to fandom match mine (rather than the specific things they are fannish about).

If I could wave a magic wand and ask for three things in fandom as a whole, they would be these:

An abandonment of the idea of shipping as activism. In general what I'd like to see is an assumption of earnest good faith on the part of other fans. Being interested in different characters, ships, fandoms, tropes or fanworks to you should not be taken as a personal attack or a deliberate attempt to deprive you of the content you want to see. Likewise, if content is tagged appropriately, the responsibility to curate their own experience should be that of individual fans, not the creators of content that those fans would prefer not to see.

For fans to stop reaching out to actors, writers, showrunners etc to rope them into shipwars and other fannish arguments or make them aware of fanworks. If those people deliberately seek out fanworks and fan spaces, fine, but seeing fans tag actors into their shipping arguments on Twitter fills me with secondhand embarrassment.

A return to Dreamwidth and other asynchronous, text-based platforms as the primary fandom spaces.

None of these things are going to happen, because all of them go against the direction that fandom has been heading for the past ten or so years, but nothing in today's prompt said that my three wishes had to be realistic!

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