dolorosa_12: (emily hanna)
Today is the penultimate installment of this year's January talking meme, and [personal profile] wheatear asked me to talk about the trashiest piece of media that I love.

I have to preface this by saying that nothing is trash if it gives you joy and/or sparks fannish feelings, and media doesn't have to be high art or inspire critical acclaim to deserve the space it occupies in your brain. You feel what you feel about the stories that matter, and they don't have to be award-winning novels or considered must-watch prestige TV.

With that preamble out of the way, my answer to today's question is the glorious, messy, often quite terrible TV series Pretty Little Liars — or, specifically, its earliest two or three seasons. It suffered a sharp decline in quality about midway through, and eventually descended into such appalling transphobia that I honestly hesitate to recommend it to anyone, but at its best it was incredible.

It was also deeply silly, ridiculously soap operatic, and unapologetically aimed at teenage girls (hence, in part, its reputation as a frivolous piece of trash). But it took those girls — their fears, their friendships, their world online — seriously, and made them the centre of their own stories. It told the story of four friends who never really felt solid in their friendships with each other until the glue that held them together — their bullying, controlling, unknowable, enigma of a queen bee friend Ally — goes missing, and they begin being tormented by a shadowy cyberbully who knows all their damaging secrets. In the best, earlier seasons, Ally haunts the girls and the show, simultaneously there and not there, her disappearance a mystery, her presence in her four friends' lives still looming large and shaping their fears and actions. And, at the beginning at least, the show's story was one of abuse, power, and control, and the way teenage girls are disempowered by everyone around them, their very lives, secrets and bodies treated as if they do not belong to them. The only thing that will save them is to trust themselves, trust each other, and treat their lives and fears as if they matter. Heather Hogan, who wrote weekly recaps of the show, sums up my thoughts on why it mattered (to me, and as a story in general), on this specific recap:

[I]f there was such a thing as a television show grocery store, you’d find Pretty Little Liars on the junk food aisle, and the packaging would tell you it’s the story of four teenage girls who grab Fashion by the balls and kiss boys and tell lies and get the shit scared out of them on the regular. And that’s this scene right here on the surface. They all look hot as hell, two of them have guy troubles, someone creepy is knocking at the door. But the truth of this show, the truth of this scene, is that it’s about four young women who have been told from the very beginning that they don’t have any power. It’s what A tells them, it’s what the police tell them, it’s what their fathers tell them, over and over. No power over what happens to their bodies, their minds, their actual lives. On the best days, it’s, “You girls hush and behave while the big, strong men figure out what to do.” (Wilden.) And on the worst days, it’s, “I made you, and so even your most personal business, your very sexuality belongs to me.” (Byron.) Right? And but these four girls, they said no to being victims, no to being powerless, no being tricked into hating their bodies and their desires and the sound of their own angry voices. Whatever else is going on inside their love for one another — whether it’s Spencer shutting down and pulling away or Aria catching Avian Flu from her own earrings — they stand together and refuse to apologize for the space they take up in the world.


If the show ultimately disappointed me, it was only because, at its best, it aspired to something, had something to say, and said it well, if melodramatically. I still love it a lot.
dolorosa_12: (emily)
Day Fifteen: Favorite female character growth arc

Emily Fields (Pretty Little Liars)

Today's post is short but sweet, because the arc concerned is relatively simple. Emily is my favourite character in Pretty Little Liars, and her story never fails to make me happy. She started the series deeply closeted, paralysed with fear at how her parents and friends would react if they knew she was a lesbian. Pretty Little Liars is a show about how teenage girls' secrets can be used to control them, and each of the four main characters began the series with one central secret, the revelation of which was their greatest fear. Emily's was her sexual orientation.

The nature of the show - with one of its themes being that secrets will eventually come out, and the only way to protect yourself against this is to control the narrative, to control the story you tell about yourself, and to reveal your secrets at a time and in a manner of your choosing. Emily manages this only partly - she's essentially forced out of the closet by forces beyond her control, but once her secret is out, and once she sees that it hasn't ruined her life, that her friends still love her, that her family (after some initial ugliness) still loves her, and that sky hasn't fallen, she seems to grow in confidence.

One of the things I find most refreshing about Pretty Little Liars is that of the four girls, Emily, the sole lesbian, is absolutely beating away love interests with a stick, whereas her heterosexual friends have far fewer options. It's a nice reversal from how such things normally happen on TV shows.

In terms of Emily's arc, what I find the most satisfying of all is that it's not simply a coming out story. Her coming-out happens very early on in the piece, and she's pretty comfortable with that by about mid-way through the first season. Rather, her arc is about confidence, standing up for herself, and not letting bullies walk all over her. Emily is like a frightened rabbit at the beginning of series, and by the fifth season she is fiercely brave, and will go to any lengths to keep those she cares about safe. Most importantly, she's learnt to stand up for herself. She's clear about her boundaries, and if those boundaries are violated, even by people she loves deeply, she calls them out and walks away. At the same time, this hard-won bravery is never at the expense of Emily's kindness and empathy, and words cannot express how much I love seeing a character whose kind heart is her strength, not her weakness. At one point in the series, in fact, the girls' faceless tormenter makes some cryptic threat about 'taking out the weak link', and everyone just assumes it's Emily, because the soft-hearted one has to be weak, right? And the 'weak link' ends up being Spencer, the cool-headed, razor-sharp rationalist of the group. I love what that says about strength.

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