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Benjanun Sriduangkaew, who in the past went by the pseudonyms Winterfox and Requires Hate (among others), and is now seeking to publish fiction again under the pseudonym Maria Ying, is a serial abuser with multiple targets in both fandom and professional genre publishing communities; currently she appears to have a tactic of befriending vulnerable trans women and creating situations where they are dependent on her.

Andy Blake, who in the past went by the fannish username Thanfiction (among others), is a serial abuser who had a pattern of behaviour targeting vulnerable individuals within fandom, isolating them, and enmeshing them in cult-like situations; currently he appears to be trying to erase the record of his past bad behaviour and start afresh with a new community and new online identity — when his past behaviour was brought up, he engaged in the same pattern of denial, deflection and counter-accusations with which he has responded to previous accusations and exposures in the past.

It's worth pointing out that both individuals have consistent patterns of abusive behaviour that have now spanned several decades, as well as consistent patterns of responding (badly, with little sign of genuine remorse or attempts to make amends or change their behaviour) when identified and challenged.

Rather than rehash everything that these individuals have done, I will link to three posts, which summarise things succinctly and link to material which goes into more detail, should you wish it. The first two posts are by [personal profile] muccamukkone just about Benjanun Sriduangkaew, one with further links and information about Andy Blake as well, and the second post is by [personal profile] rachelmanija, again linking to further documentation. If you are active on Tumblr, there are links in the above posts that are rebloggable on Tumblr, which I would recommend, as it's a good idea to spread this information to people who don't use Dreamwidth.

Fandom has a short memory, but unfortunately it also tends to be a haven for vulnerable people, including vulnerable people who are too trusting about sharing all the traumatic things that make them vulnerable with unscrupulous people, and I feel it's important to do what we can to minimise harm in this regard.
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It's been a week simultaneously amusing (because watching footage of Boris Johnson trundling miserably around the north while being acosted by furious voters is never going to stop being funny) and frustrating (because Brexit is such a colossal waste of time, distraction from the things that desperately need to be fixed, and will, if it happens, make it harder to fix them). I'm also profoundly grateful that I am no longer an academic, and specifically no longer a medievalist academic, because there is a colossal blowup going on at the moment in medievalist circles, involving a lot of friends, and Americans bulldozing and bullying people from the rest of the world (and doing the usual thing of assuming that everything should be rearranged to accord with US sensibilities, terminology etc, expecting everyone to instantly accommodate them, and refusing to learn about the history, facts on the ground, or norms elsewhere in the world). Unfortunately, I can see the whole thing settling into becoming a repeat of the Winterfox/Requires Hate/Benjanun Sriduangkaew situation (content note: descriptions of abuse, harassment, abuse denial), and I'm powerless to stop it.

Things that have been keepig me sane(ish):

  • Swimming. I've settled into a nice routine with this, swimming a kilometre three times a week at the pool near work, in the early hours of the morning, before I start work for the day.

  • Yoga. I had really tight shoulders at the end of the week, so I spent this afternoon doing slow, complicated upper back stretches, and now my arms feel as if they're floating.

  • Reading. I spent the week snuggling up with comfort rereads — Sarah Rees Brennan's glorious Demon's Lexicon trilogy. I love all the characters in this. I love how they use words as weapons, I love how the book unpacks tropes and rewrites them, twisted, but most of all I love how at its heart the series is about families, and how much all the characters care about each other. I've now downloaded a new-to-me KJ Charles book, and after that I'll probably return to Sarah Rees Brennan's other books, and reread the Lynburn Legacy trilogy.

  • Cooking. I've currently got this recipe for one-pot roast chicken with risoni, and it smells amazing! We'll eat it tonight with the bottle of white wine we bought in southern Germany in August, and use the leftovers for at least one more meal, and make vast quantities of stock from the bones.

  • TV. While I can't say that it's been exactly relaxing, Matthias and I did finish watching The Alienist, and enjoyed it immensely. I'm glad there'll be a second season.


  • Other than that I've probably been spending more time on Twitter than is healthy for my state of mind, but at least it does evoke a sense of camaraderie in absurdity and horror.
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    Content note: this post is about the ongoing abusive behaviour of the SFF writer Benjanun Sriduangkaew, also known as Requires Hate, Winterfox, and various other pseudonyms.

    The rest of the post is behind the cut )
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    To say that all RH did was to utter words is a complete denial of what we are as writers. Words have power, and words wielded in hatred and violence are just as harmful as violence dealt out with fists.

    —Rochita Loenen-Ruiz, 'Standing Up and Speaking Truth'

    Yes, this is a post on Winterfox/Requires Hate/Benjanun Sriduangkaew. Consider that a content warning for references to abusive behaviour of many kinds. I've put the post behind a cut for that reason.

    Cut for discussion of harassment, abuse and bullying )

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