dolorosa_12: (garden pond)
This past weekend was a long weekend in England, and Matthias and I went down to Devon to visit our friends C and L, and their two small daughters (aged four and six). We've been friends for a very long time; Matthias and L were best men at each other's respective weddings, and Matthias is godfather to their older daughter, but for various reasons, we haven't seen each other in person for a very long time. Thankfully, things worked out, such that we were able to stay with them from Friday evening until Monday afternoon.

It was a lovely few days. The weather cooperated (not always a given in that part of the world), and we spent a lot of time wandering around in pretty National Trust gardens, fruitlessly assisting the daughters as they waved a metal detector over the sand at a beach (although they had more luck filling buckets with shells), and answering endless questions that started with the word 'why'. It's actually relatively easy to find activities that suit both adults and small children, provided you're able to go outdoors, and this past weekend worked out well in that regard. (The two girls are very good walkers, particularly as their parents have a sneaky trick on any walk of giving the children a bucket each, and asking them to collect the ten 'most interesting things' they find on the walk.)

It was not exactly restful (I was exhausted every night), but I had a wonderful time. You'll get a feel for things via this photoset — golden sun, lush green vegetation, clouds hanging like cotton wool in the blue sky.
dolorosa_12: (autumn worldroad)
This weekend has been absolutely glorious: beautiful light, beautiful autumn leaves, and lots of time spent out and about.

I spared myself the prospect of two hours of Halloween-themed Zumba yesterday, and just went to the first hour of my regular fitness classes, which meant I was out of the gym by midmorning, rather than lunchtime, then met Matthias at the market, where we bought a bunch of vegetables, fruit, and cheese. It started to rain just as we were queueing at the coffee stall, but it was so mild that I didn't really mind, as we dashed home between the raindrops, clutching our hot drinks.

After lunch, I made a good start on my Yuletide assignment, which is coming together well. I have plans for at least four treats this year, so I'm going to need to be fairly disciplined in order to get it all done — it's my tenth year doing Yuletide, so I want to make an effort.

After dinner on Saturday, we watched the Wynonna Earp film, which I can't really recommend. It had some good quippy lines, it was nice to see the old gang back together, but the whole thing felt a bit hollow: underdeveloped character motivations, and relationships that didn't quite ring true to where the characters had been when the TV series ended. I had felt that the TV show's final season was incoherent fanservice, and this felt like more of the same. Like Veronica Mars, another beloved TV show with sharp writing, great chemistry between actors, and a cult following, it's been allowed to go on too long — rewarding fans' passion and loyalty, but not necessarily with a good result.

Today started will all the Sunday staples: swimming, yoga, stewing fruit, and cooking crepes for breakfast. Then Matthias and I lay around reading for a few hours, before our friends from our hiking group came to pick us up and take us to the starting point of this month's outing: a village called Brinkley, 25km or so away, where we met up with our other walking companions, and set out. It was a gorgeous day: the sky was clear and blue, the air was still, and the autumn leaves were vivid and crisp. We walked over gently undulating hills, through fields and little tracks between picturesque villages, and over a narrow and rather stagnant river. The theme of the day was fruit trees (we ate windfall apples from the ground under a line of trees by the side of the road, and they were delicious), horses, and dogs. The latter featured heavily at our final destination: the cute little village pub in Brinkley, which had two massive fireplaces, and a rotating cluster of locals gathered near the bar, with their various friendly dogs. It was a cosy and welcome end to the walk before the drive home (just to be clear, the drivers among us drank orange juice and non-alcoholic beer, respectively).

Now I'm back in my living room armchair, catching up on Dreamwidth while Matthias and I wait for our Indian takeaway to be delivered for dinner. I could do with one more day of weekend, but at least the two days I've had have been great.
dolorosa_12: (winter tree)
This week's open thread prompt is sparked by the sad news that, when I was walking to the pool, I realised that the council had cut down my favourite tree in Ely! I love trees: they're one of my favourite things to look at and photograph, and I get very attached to them. They're like familiar old friends, and they're one of the first things I notice when I'm in a new place.

So: talk to me about the trees that have meant the most to you.

Arboreal talk behind the cut )
dolorosa_12: (winter branches)
It rained all week, and then on Saturday, the clouds rolled back, unfolding across the clearest, brightest winter skies. This was opportune and perfect, since Matthias and were joining friends (or, I guess at this stage, friends of friends would be a more accurate description) for their monthly walk. (In line with my aspirations to lead a slightly less restricted, hermit-like existence, this walking group seemed like the perfect, low key way to open up my world somewhat.) On the last Saturday of every month, they pick a local-ish hike, and whoever wants to come joins in.

Yesterday's walk was circular: 8km or so across the fields and woods near Stetchworth. Like everywhere in this area, it was a pretty flat landscape, and because it had been raining all week, it was muddy, soggy going — which made what would otherwise have been quite an easy amble somewhat tough going. My boots ended up caked in mud, and although it didn't feel physically challenging at the time, once I'd stopped moving, I realised my legs hurt a lot — in a good way. I imagine in summer it would be a very different experience, but mud is an occupational hazard in this part of the world at this time of year.

I could not get over the sun-drenched expanses of sky, sweeping above, clear blue interspersed with cottonwool dots of low-hanging clouds. After what feels like weeks of grey, the contrast was remarkable, and really did a lot to lift my mood (which has been very low for what feels like a very long time) — I imagine being out in the open air, with other people played its part as well. This photoset gives you a good idea of the whole vibe.

We had time for a quick drink in the garden of a seventeenth-century pub in Woodditton, trudged back across more fields and forests beneath the setting sun, and made it back to the carpark where we'd started in the last moments of daylight. As we were driven back to Ely, the moon rose, and hung, huge, yellow, and low to the horizon, looming above us as we made our way through the darkening fens, adding to the magical air of the whole journey.

Today was a more typical weekend day: swimming through sunshine first thing in the morning, river loop walk with Matthias ending up in the courtyard garden of our favourite cafe/bar eating food truck food for lunch, a challenging yoga class this afternoon just prior to opening up Dreamwidth and composing this post.

It's been another slow week, reading wise (my reading has not been helped in general by my low mood), but I did finish a single book: Lud-in-the-Mist (Hope Mirrlees), an early 20th-century fantasy classic that I'd always meant to pick up, and had the serendipity to find left out on the front step in a box of books being given away for free by a neighbour down the road. (This is a good street for such things — now that I've read the book, I'll give it away myself once I've gathered together a few more books I no longer want to keep.)

Lud-in-the-Mist is a strange, meandering, fable of a book — it's always interesting to read early fiction with fantasy elements published before the conventions of the genre were established (and indeed before fantasy was perceived as being a firmly distinct genre). It's set in an indeterminate fairytale world whose inhabitants have anxiously banished any thought of the magical and fantastic — to the point that it's a social taboo to even mention them — but, as in many similar stories, the fantastic continues to encroach on the human world, with potentially dangerous consequences. I always love reading stories in which the the otherworld and the human world bleed into one another, their boundaries porous and interwoven, their inhabitants interdependent in spite of their best endeavours. The fairies of Lud-in-the-Mist are uncanny and inhuman in the best folkloric tradition, and the story is told with a resonant, lyrical beauty.

Beyond that, I've been finalising my Once Upon a Fic signup (in the end, I went with the same fandoms as last year, since I still feel there are good stories to be told in those for which I've already received gifts, and some are fandoms which I've requested before without luck), and gearing up for the upcoming work week. I'm hoping the joy and light and hope of this weekend will be enough of a drastic reset to carry me through — the start of a springtime of the mind, as it were. For now, I'll build up some kindling in our wood-burning stove, turn on the string lights, and light some candles: warmth and cosiness, shining through from the end of one season and the tentative start of the next.
dolorosa_12: (autumn worldroad)
Today I awoke to exactly the kind of weather I most enjoy: a blanketing fog that didn't lift until at least midday. I took a bunch of photos on my way to the pool, revelling in the arrival of autumn.

It's not been a great month for reading (to be honest, I've been too stressed about the grim political situation in far too many parts of the world), but I did manage to finish a couple of other books before the close of September.

Those books are:

  • The Community (N. Jamiyla Chisholm), a memoir about the author's experiences growing up in a cult. The cult in question drew on elements of militant Black separatism in the US, Islam, and a jumble of conspiracy theories, and resulted in the inevitable toxic mix of abusive isolation from the outside world, paranoia, financial exploitation of cult members, child sexual abuse, etc. It was an interesting book, and but it wasn't quite what I wanted to read — it focused much more on the author's relationship with her parents and thoughts about her own childhood, whereas I wanted a fuller focus on the cult itself, and the socio-cultural factors which shaped it and made it attractive to its members.


  • Last Night at the Telegraph Club (Malinda Lo), a work of historical fiction set in 1950s San Francisco, as seen through the eyes of Chinese-American (and closeted lesbian) teenager Lily Hu. The racism, sexism and homophobia of the period all get a look-in, as well as the major political currents of the era (McCarthyism, the space race, Cold War fears of spies and infiltration, the communist revolution in China). Against this backdrop, the book tells a coming-of-age narrative, as Lily falls in love (with a girl, with a nightclub, with a vibrant, clandestine queer community) and tries to contend with the dual challenges of familial and community expectations, and her own hopes and aspirations. As a snapshot of a time and place, Last Night at the Telegraph Club is fantastic — the hidden queer community is particularly well done — although I felt the book as a whole seemed to leap from episode to episode rather than telling a flowing story (and it ended in a manner that was both abrupt, and far too tidy). My absolute favourite part, however, was its multiple mouth-watering descriptions of Chinese food, in all its regional specificity — this is definitely not a book to read when you're hungry!


  • Let's hope I can be a bit better at reading regularly in October!
    dolorosa_12: (winter branches)
    Look at me, keeping this revived Friday open thread thing going for a second week! Let's hope this sense of productivity and purpose continues throughout the year, given the enthusiastic response to this series' return.

    Today's question is about the time of year where you are:

    What is something you love, or always look forward to, about this time of year where you are?


    'Where you are' can be as broadly defined as you like. It could be your very specific town, or street, or suburb, but equally it could be your country, or even a wider/unspecified geographical region such as 'North Africa' or 'my country in southwestern Europe.' In other words, please don't feel you need to go into a great deal of specificity about your physical location if you're not comfortable with that information being public.

    My answer is the weather. I love both the crisp, clear, frosty mornings, when every branch and leaf and blade of grass is sparkling, and your breath is visible in the air, and the days when the fog lies heavy across the fields and fens and river well into the afternoon. I love the way the fog looks when the sky is dark. And I love seeing the bare branches of the trees against the clear winter sky, and the chaos of the wintry hedgerows. I love walking in the stillness of the early morning, when the light has just touched the ground, and it's as if every sound has been swallowed.

    While it's not unique to the place where I live, I also feel a huge sense of productivity and purpose in January, as if the newness of the year gives me a kind of added energy and motivation, and living a well-rounded life seems easy. It's always a short-lived feeling (by February, the long months of short days and darkness have worn me down to exhaustion), but I always enjoy it while it lasts.

    What about all of you?
    dolorosa_12: (sellotape)
    I'm happiest when my days are filled with a good mixture of stuff, and that's certainly been true this weekend. In list format, in no particular order, I've done the following:

  • Read so many books, in a variety of genres (about which more in a review post later in the week)

  • Done a variety of yoga sessions ranging from the intense to the stretchy to the restorative

  • Roamed the outdoor market in the rain, picking up vegetables, fruit, bread and cheese

  • Swum a kilometre

  • Pottered around on Dreamwidth, overwhelmed by, and grateful for, the response to both my [community profile] snowflake_challenge posts and the return of my Friday open threads

  • Walked out through the muddy fens with Matthias, under clear skies


  • Now I've got curry simmering, fragrant on the stove, and I'm winding down, and resting.

    Snowflake Challenge promotional banner featuring a wrapped giftbox with a snowflake on the gift tag. Text: Snowflake Challenge January 1-31

    Today's [community profile] snowflake_challenge prompt is: In your own space, talk about an idea you wish you had the time / talent / energy to do.

    Unfinished visioncloths behind the cut )
    dolorosa_12: (winter berries)
    And that's how it's done.

    You can always rely on Lib Dems to do the most awkward-looking, dorky, heavy-handed stunts. [WINNING HERE.]

    For context, I'm no Lib Dem voter, but I'm an anything-but-the-Tories voter who will vote tactically when required and yearns for electoral reform. (First past the post is the antithesis of democracy, and tactical voting and anti-Tory alliances are the only tools at our disposal to fight it.) At present I have no time for liberals fearmongering about the 'far left,' purity posturing from disgruntled Corbyn cultists, or anyone accusing people slightly to the right of them of being 'Blairites': there are fascists at the gates, and all of these ideological differences pale in comparison.

    *


    Meanwhile, Ely has big The Dark Is Rising energy today.

    I've finished work for the week, the month, and the year, and I am determined to be happy.
    dolorosa_12: (doll anime)
    At last, my cold seems to be receding (fought off, as far as I can tell, by a combination of hot lemon/honey/ginger, and congee), and I no longer feel as if I'm drowning in my own lungs. That was a particularly nasty one, and I'm glad to see the back of it.

    For those of you who enjoy nature writing, there's going to be a (free) Zoom event this Saturday with Robin Wall Kimmerer, Robert Macfarlane, and David Haskell. The event will be recorded and shared later, so if you can't make it at the advertised time, you should still be able to access it later. This is the event description:

    In August 2021, Orion Magazine released Old Growth, an anthology of essays and poems about the lives of trees. It's a dynamic cross section of Orion's long history of engagement with arboreal culture, featuring work by Ursula K Le Guin, Terese Marie Mailhot, Michelle Nijhuis, Michael Pollan, and Arthur Sze, and printed as gently as we could manage -- using 100% recycled paper, processed without chlorine, and free of plastic.

    To celebrate the release of the book, Robin Wall Kimmerer (who contributes the foreword) will hold a public discussion with Robert Macfarlane and David Haskell. These authors bring a unique perspective on the legacy of trees in deep time, which they explore in their recent books Braiding Sweetgrass, Underland, and The Song of Trees,respectively. Together, they will discuss the idea of the personhood of trees, root communities, and the ways in which humans might foster the growth of our canopy. Moderating the event is Mary Evelyn Tucker, co-author of Journey of the Universe.


    You can register here.

    For large parts of this past plague year(-and-a-half), my fandom has basically been the cookery empire of Yotam Ottolenghi and Sami Tamimi, so of course I was delighted to watch a panel discussion with Tamimi, Tara Wigley (the co-author of his Falastin cookbook), and representatives of the Zaytoun food import company, talking about Palestinian cooking. It's viewable on Youtube, and inevitably made me hungry.



    The Vengaboys (yes, you read that right) have just released a new single, and the video clip is the most lurid, kitsch, 90s-nostalgic, self-referential thing I've ever seen. I am delighted.



    (In a sentence that is possibly the most late-90s Australian thing ever: I once won a free Vengaboys CD at the launch event of a new under-18s nightclub; the launch event was sponsored by Impulse deodorant and hosted by several cast members of Home and Away. And yes, fourteen-year-old Ronni attended said launch event wearing a) bell-bottomed leggings that had a miniskirt attached b) a baby blue singlet top with a glittery rhinestone butterfly on it c) my hair basically in this style d) bright blue platform sneakers and e) body glitter. I can still remember all these details because the entire event seemed like the most serious business ever at the time.)
    dolorosa_12: (beach shells)
    Yesterday, Matthias and I returned after a week away on holiday by the seaside. We went to Southwold, on the Suffolk coast, which is an easy trip for us on public transport (2 hours on the train, half an hour on a bus). The two of us don't tend to holiday in the UK — in fact, apart from trips to visit friends elsewhere in the country, and occasional weekends in London, I don't think we have ever used annual leave to stay somewhere within the UK. Last year, of course, we didn't leave the country — but we didn't leave Cambridge, either! All our holidays were at home. We really couldn't face another year like that, and when we were planning when to claim our annual leave, Matthias remarked that he desperately wanted a holiday where we went somewhere, I remarked that I was desperate to see the ocean, and he (who is the booker and planner in our household) investigated a bit and suggested Southwold. It was a really good decision.

    What we did on our holiday )

    I'll do another post in the next couple of days about the books I read while on holiday, because they were a great bunch, several chosen on the basis of reviews people in my Dreamwidth circle have posted.
    dolorosa_12: (queen presh)
    Today is, apparently, all about the online author events. Having watched the recording of Roshani Chokshi's Instagram Live event last night, I'm now alerted to the fact that Zen Cho is doing a similar event in about half an hour today. Since this will fall right at the start of my working day, I'm also going to watch it later, and will update this post with the link to the recording so you can all do the same. [Updated to add the link to the recording.]

    I will, however, be able to watch Amal El-Mohtar's keynote speech at Glasgow International Fantasy Conversations live on Youtube this afternoon, as it's due to stream at 5pm British Summer Time, which is exactly when I stop work. This may be of interest to some of you as well — check what time it is in your timezone, or come back to the same link to watch asynchronously, as it will be available for a little while afterwards. El-Mohtar is a great public speaker — she's brilliant whether in a podcast, a panel, a kaffeeklatsch, or doing a keynote address, so I highly recommend this event.

    Reading-wise, I've been firmly ensconced in Egypt these past few days, with P. Djèlí Clark's short story 'The Angel of Khan el-Khalili' (about feminism, justice, and the workers' movement (including a scenario evocative of the Triangle Shirtwaist Fire), set against a version of 20th-century Egypt where steampunk automata are part of every home, and angels and djinn talk to people who dare to seek them out), and then Mara, Daughter of the Nile by Eloise Jarvis McGraw, a work of historical children's fiction that I read after [personal profile] lirazel used it as the answer to one of the thirty-day book meme prompts. I think if I'd read this as a child, as [personal profile] lirazel did, I would have enjoyed it uncritically. However, while I love the overall story and setting (a teenage girl, enslaved and chafing against her situation, winds up working as a spy and embroiled in the dangerous politics of ancient Egypt in the time of Hatshepsut), the book is very much of its time, with some very unfortunate 1950s implications which soured things a bit for my twenty-first century eyes.

    Onwards to the last book meme prompt:

    30. A book you detest that people are surprised by

    My answer )

    And that's the final post in my series of answers to a great set of questions about books and reading. I've really enjoyed answering them, and I'm happy that I managed to do this across every single day of April without any gaps!

    I'll leave you with some photos and a video of the beautiful blossoms in our garden! Have a great weekend!.
    dolorosa_12: (dolorosa)
    After yesterday's post, Matthias and I ended up taking advantage of the sunshine to do a new walk — a huge loop that took us along the river in the other direction, and back through town. The whole thing was about 4km, and we saw cows by the cathedral, and a hedgehog wandering along the road (it was an empty road, and went into the undergrowth shortly after I took the photo).

    This morning I've been doing meal prep for next week, while listening to old Massive Attack albums and just marvelling at how incredibly good it is. I want to just submerge myself in the lyrics for days.

    Here's today's book meme prompt:

    25. A book that answered a question you never asked

    My answer )

    The other days )
    dolorosa_12: (cherry blossoms)
    Yesterday was pretty much close to perfect. Matthias and I had been talking for ages about going on longer walks around Ely — I never feel at home in a place until I've gone wandering, and given there's little else that can be done outside the house as a social activity, it seemed a good idea. But we've always been either too busy, or the weather has been appalling, and we kept putting it off.

    In any case, we finally did the 12km round trip to Little Thetford. To make it a round trip (rather than simply walking there and walking back), you do the first half through the fields (boggy, with dark, rich earth scored deeply by tractors, waiting for the seeds for this year's harvest), then carry on beyond the village until you reach a marina filled with houseboats. At this point, you turn around and walk back along raised paths beside the River Ouse. It's so flat here that the cathedral looms out of the landscape, wherever you are, reflecting the sunlight. The walk was windy, and filled with birds, and very, very satisfying. I've put up a photoset over at [instagram.com profile] ronnidolorosa.

    Then it was back home for Thai take-away for dinner. We followed that with our annual watch-through of all the Eurovision songs for this year's competition. As always, it was a mix of the ridiculous and the sublime, interspersed with the utterly inexplicable. (Prime candidate for the latter is Finland's entry this year — inexplicably, they sent a nu metal band, which Matthias inevitably dubbed 'Helsinkin Park'.)

    My favourites (or at least the ones that made me the happiest) were:

    Cut for embedded videos )

    I really need some Eurovision icons.
    dolorosa_12: (latern)
    All the boxes are packed — barring the one which will hold our duvets and the last remaining crockery and water glasses — all the bookshelves are empty, and all the cupboards are bare. It's our final night in our little house under the ivy.

    We've lived here for eight years. It was not the first place where we lived together: we lived for a year in a sharehouse with three of our friends. But it was the first place where we lived alone as a couple, it's where we lived when I finished my PhD, when we both fell into librarianship as a career, became UK citizens, Matthias completed his librarianship degree and I my teaching qualification, and where we lived when we got married. We've seen a lot of life in this house.

    This past year, more than ever, I was profoundly happy to be living here. It's centrally located, it's got great shops around the corner (none of which closed during the pandemic and indeed a new one selling great bread, cheese and vegetables opened), and in general it was a nice place to be locked down and working with my husband across the other side of the dining room table. And, above all, it has so many green spaces just outside the door. I've talked a lot here about walking or running to Grantchester, which was great when I had the time, but not always possible in the middle of a working day. But for days when all we had time for was a quick stretch of the legs after lunch, we had Paradise.

    This little nature reserve is literally just around the corner, and yet for seven years I had no idea of its existence. One morning, early in April, I wandered down a street I'd never been in, and there it was: ducks, swans, grazing sheep and all. During the summer we went there almost every single day.

    It's been a bit too muddy in the winter to go there, but as it was our last day in the area, we trudged through the mud to see it one last time as residents. It started off cloudy, but as we rounded the final corner, the sun came out. The whole place is flooded — what was a field of sheep in the summer is now a lake filled with confused swans and seagulls. We drank in the earth, and all that water.

    We would have loved to stay living in this part of the world, but sadly it is the most expensive part of Cambridge, and buying here would have been impossible. (For comparison, one of the other houses in the complex recently sold for twice the cost of what we paid for our new house.) And so, tomorrow, away we go, for new walls, new trees, and new adventures.
    dolorosa_12: (sellotape)
    We went for our last walk to Grantchester for the immediate future. (The house we have bought is nowhere near where we currently live, meaning Grantchester is not on our doorstep.) I prefer it when the whole place is shrouded in mist and waterlogged, but given it was a farewell of sorts, I'm glad today it was flooded in sunlight. Here's a photoset. We took our time, and loitered by the alpacas for a while, and generally used the walk to stretch muscles that had been made tired by all the packing yesterday. It was glorious.

    Then it was back home for a breakfast from the French patisserie (for understandable reasons, we basically have no food left in the house), and my attempts to get rid of the last unwanted items of furniture on Facebook Marketplace. A nice Czech guy took the massive open-fronted wardrobe that I'd really been worrying about (mainly because it's too big to fit in a standard car, but he showed up with a screwdriver and disassembled it in the carpark, which I found charming), and a nice Chinese guy took the removable towel rails (which hang from the radiators) and hanging frames that hang off the doors (you can hang coats, bags, or in our case toiletries bags in the bathroom from them). As you can probably tell, our current rental house has virtually nothing in the way of inbuilt storage — not even towel rails in the bathroom — so all these things were ways to get around that. The new house, thankfully, is overflowing with inbuilt storage, including bookshelves, which was to a large extent why we wanted to buy it (the other main reasons: a recently renovated kitchen, and DOUBLE-GLAZED WINDOWS), so all this stuff is unnecessary.

    I'm still feeling pretty frazzled, meaning it's been impossible to focus on anything, either reading or writing. I realised last night, when I was struggling to stop myself from mentally packing the remaining boxes and bags while I was trying to get to sleep, that I absolutely cannot cope with tasks left unfinished at the end of the day. It's why I only list daily tasks in my bullet journal and gave up with the 'future log' or monthly list of tasks after about one month when I first started bullet journalling: I just get really stressed if I think of these longer term things. Obviously there are a lot of long-term projects (both professional and in my personal life) that cannot be finished in a single day, but I've always preferred to break them down into smaller things that can be finished in a day ('write 1000 words,' 'email this person,' 'book this one thing'). When the task is something that cannot be broken down in this way ('pack up your whole house, including things that you will need to use right up to the final morning,') it just weighs on my mind, consuming all my thoughts.

    I do feel massively relieved to have got rid of everything we were planning to give away before the move — all that remains will be to give away the boxes, packing tape and bubble wrap to someone else moving house, once we've unpacked at the new place.

    At least the end is in sight!
    dolorosa_12: (tea)
    Well, it has been A Week. I made the preemptive decision some time ago that I would refrain from going online from the point when I went to bed on Tuesday night (UK time) until when I felt in the right frame of mind to deal with the news coming out of the US. That meant no social media, no news websites, and, above all, no hysterical, frenzied, real-time speculation about the election result until the outcome was fairly close to certain.

    As a result, instead of feeling like a gibbering wreck for the past few days, I have felt completely serene. I've read three books. I've cooked slow, warming food. I've gone running out in the fens, and done yoga every day. And, best of all, I went out walking at dawn in the eerie mist. Everything was still, and cold, and starkly beautiful, with cows looming out of the fog.

    And so, my question to you all, for this week's open thread prompt, is as follows: how do you keep yourself calm? What activities help you maintain a sense of equilibrium? What soothes you?
    dolorosa_12: (autumn branches)
    This day of transition from daylight saving to standard time is my favourite of the year: I'm a morning person, I tend to wake up early, and I like waking to sunlight. The extra hour is always much appreciated as well. This time around, it meant that Matthias and I were up and off for our walk to Grantchester by about 7.30am, and back home — via the French bakery for a fresh, warm baguette and coffee — at about 8.30am. It was bright, crisp, and clear, and the cows were all gathered in the field closest to the carpark, ready to be moved out of their summer home, as always happens when daylight saving ends.

    The rest of the morning was taken up with yoga (a fast flow sequence that was perhaps a bit more ambitious than I felt like, focusing heavily on core strength), a bit of food prep for dinner, cleaning empty fountain pens, and finishing up the final fifteen per cent of the book I'd been reading, Queen of the Conquered by Kacen Callender.

    This was a book that was so ambitious and compelling in some regards, and so incredibly frustrating in other areas that I almost feel incapable of reviewing it. It's the first in a fantasy series grappling with the history of slavery and colonialism, particularly in the Caribbean, and it has really interesting things to say about revenge. It's essentially a revenge tragedy, and Callender does a great job of showing what it is to live a life solely motivated by revenge — how it corrupts and poisons everything, how it hollows out a person, and how it causes such a person to justify every injustice they perpetrate as working towards that ultimate end. I applaud Callender also for writing a book whose protagonist is so thoroughly contemptible (there are several things that she — the narrator, Sigourney — does that cross a moral line beyond which I am incapable of finding a character sympathetic) but for whom it is still possible to feel pity.

    But at the same time, the book — which is supposedly adult fiction — was dreadfully let down by how closely it stuck to the typical US young adult novel formula. The first person present tense grated — I can see why the former was necessary, given the book was intended to bring its readers into uncomfortable proximity to the mindset of a woman so thoroughly convinced that 'the master's tools will dismantle the master's house', but present tense is almost never warranted, and certainly wasn't here. The obvious Designated Love Interest was unnecessary. And the twist at the end was so obviously telegraphed (it's basically Chekhov's Mind-Reading: if you have a narrator who has supernatural abilities to read people's minds, those responsible for the unsolved string of politically-motivated murders are going to be the people whose minds she refrains from reading out of respect, or dismissal of their importance, and I figured this out after I'd read about a third of the book). And from a structural point of view, it's really poor writing to have this great twist revealed in a huge infodump (secondhand, as the narrator reads someone's mind) for the final fifteen per cent of the book.

    In other words, interesting ideas, shame about the execution.

    My other recently read books have, with one exception, been a lot more satisfying.

    Two novellas and three novels behind the cut )

    The rest of the weekend has been spent signing up for Yuletide, poking around the letters app (I now have a list of six potential requests I want to treat, and the only thing that's stopping me from starting is that I like to write my assignment first before committing to any treats), and trying to hunt down an elusive book which unfortunately has (to the best of my memory) an extremely generic name.

    My obsession with fiction set in Al-Andalus (either when it was experiencing its glittering golden age, or in its dying days and collapse), particularly when the point-of-view characters are religious minorities, was kindled way back in my undergrad days, when my Jewish History/Religion/Culture lecturer assigned us an excerpt of a historical novel set in that period (alongside the typical academic books and journal articles). I'd always meant to track down this book, but its name eludes me, and while a lot of Googling by both Matthias and me yesterday unearthed an entire library of historical fiction books covering similar ground (now all added to my to read list), I still cannot find the book in question. Now my only hope is that all my photocopied course notes are still sitting in my old room in my mum's flat in Sydney, so that whenever international travel is possible again, I can go through said notes and find the reference to the book I'm seeking. At least I've got an interesting looking set of other books to read at some point in the future!

    In the time it's taken me to write this post, the sun has completely disappeared. Any lingering hint of summer has definitely well and truly vanished!
    dolorosa_12: (autumn worldroad)
    I don't know how it happened, but somehow I ended up spending the entire day (other than a brief walk around the nature reserve in the early hours of the morning; photoset here) cooking, and cleaning the kitchen. At least as a result most of the meals for next week are cooked, and all the half-full opened bags of dried fruit, nuts, spices, dried herbs, pasta, rice etc have now had their contents stored in jars and tupperware containers. But I didn't really intend to spend the hours from 9am to 2.30pm cooking and cleaning!

    I had intended to spend that time writing, but I really, really do not have the energy.

    Instead, I think I'll use the remaining hours of the weekend to browse the Yuletide tagset some more, try to narrow down my offers (and start thinking about potential participants to treat), and basically just get my sign-up prepared and ready to go. That should still leave some time to read, check out the latest issue of Lore Olympus (which I always save until Sunday afternoons), and maybe do some yoga.

    I hope you're all enjoying your weekends.
    dolorosa_12: (tea)


    The prompt for [community profile] sunshine_challenge today is 'green'.

    Green is my very favourite colour, and being out among green and growing things is one of the surest ways for me to restore a sense of calm and happiness if I'm feeling down. When I'm not able to go out and look at trees and fenlands, I do the next best thing: scroll through the numerous gardening, flower farmer, or otherwise outdoorsy nature-focused Instagram accounts that I follow.

    I've deliberately kept Instagram as the sole oasis of social media calm: apart from online and 'real life' friends and family, the only accounts I follow are those which post about beautiful, calming and pleasant things. And for my response to today's challenge prompt, I am going to recommend a few of my favourite accounts. Most of them are based in the UK (or northwestern Europe), as that's where I live, and there are a handful of accounts from Australia, as that's where I'm from.

    [instagram.com profile] sigridsminde: a woman with an incredible farm and garden in the Danish island of Ærø.

    [instagram.com profile] aseasonalharvest: a woman with a great garden in a huge block of land in the south coast of NSW in Australia.

    [instagram.com profile] my_urban_edible_garden: does what it says on the tin — an amazing urban garden in Sydney.

    [instagram.com profile] milliproust: a flower farmer in the UK.

    [instagram.com profile] botanicaltales: a woman in the UK who runs a business selling dried flowers. Also has a great allotment garden and green roof in her house.

    [instagram.com profile] foxgloveandivy: beautiful photos of the English countryside.

    [instagram.com profile] thewildwoodmoth: lovely photos of the Dorset coast.

    [instagram.com profile] ouririshstory: gorgeous photos of the west coast of Ireland.

    [instagram.com profile] oakandclaw: incredible nature photography, mainly in the north of England.

    [instagram.com profile] lobsterandswan: beautiful photos of flowers, plants, and interiors.

    [instagram.com profile] petalspapyrus: lots of photos of flowers from a woman in Japan.

    Looking at photos and Instagram stories from these accounts always soothes me.
    dolorosa_12: (amelie)
    I started the day by running to Grantchester and back. I left the house around 6.30, and it was cold enough that there was frost on the ground, mist rose up from the river, and the cows loomed eerily on the empty fields. I followed the run with a long, slow restorative yoga session, and what with all that exercise I felt simultaneously strong, stretched, and relaxed by 9am.

    Today is the last day of my strange, languid holiday at home — I'll be 'returning' to work tomorrow. I spent the morning cleaning the internal windows in the house, moving my seedlings around on the windowsill to ensure that they got maximum sunlight, and sat outside in the courtyard for an hour or so, drinking coffee, eating a few remaining Easter eggs, and writing in my paper journal and bullet journal, surrounded by a pile of washi tape and fountain pens.

    *


    I've been reading free short stories online. I've found them to be a bit of a mixed bag.

    'To Balance the Weight of Khalem' by RB Lemberg is about being a refugee and a migrant, with magical onions, crossing oceans, and food as a metaphor for loss, grief, alienation and home. I found it to be gorgeous, gorgeous work, although I think readers will get more out of it if they know anything of Lemberg's personal history — if you do, the metaphors and allusions in the story are very obvious.

    'The Time Invariance of Snow' by E. Lily Yu is packed with allusions to myths and fairytales where women speak but their words have no power. I found it an interesting twist on the Snow Queen story, but possibly a bit darker than I was looking for in the current climate.

    'Little Free Library' by Naomi Kritzer was a little bit twee (and as a librarian I have mixed opinions about little free 'libraries') — about a woman who opens up a little free library and strikes up a strange relationship with an unseen borrower of her books who appears to have come not just from outside her neighbourhood, but from outside this world altogether. I enjoy stories about the uncanny and strange brushing up against our world, so it was satisfying, but a bit slight.

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    I received a nice treat in the post today — a beautiful Pippi Longstocking postcard from [personal profile] gingicat, to go with the recipe postcard I received a week or so ago from [personal profile] schneefink. I'm really enjoying this uptick in physical mail, and hope it continues beyond the pandemic.

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    I will leave you with some photos of cherry, apple, and plum blossom from around my neighbourhood. The trees here are absolutely gorgeous at the moment, and I feel very fortunate to still be able to go outside and be among them. Here's the photoset on Instagram, and here it is as a Twitter thread if you prefer.

    Incidentally, if you are on either of those platforms, I'm always happy to be added (and add in return) Dreamwidth people. I'm [twitter.com profile] ronnidolorosa and [instagram.com profile] ronnidolorosa. Instagram is very much the clichéd range of photos of flowers, trees and food. Twitter has a few more ranty political retweets and outraged grumpy threads about being a migrant in the UK and how dreadfully the UK government treats migrants and refugees.

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    I hope you all are having as restful a time as possible.

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